A Yoga Journey

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What is  a yoga journey? Hmmm??? Well….to me it mirrors my journey of life. Everything I practice on my mat I can relate back to my life. Some days I am frustrated and  feel badly about  my lack of flexibility. However I am able to quickly rid myself of these negative thoughts. I recognize that if I were more flexible in a pose that it would not make me more peaceful, calm,  kind or any of the things I strive to be better at in my life. What it would do would make me LOOK better in a pose and that would feed my Ego and thus I would feel proud. But this is an example of an Ego driven attachment and it would not satisfy me for long….  I realize that such “mind chatter” is a distraction from a greater truth. 

 When something or someone makes you feel really good or really bad you should consider a few things.  First consider how your attachment  to this person/thing  effects your emotional well-being. Do you want to be dependent on someone or something to make you feel a certain way?  Would it be nice if that person/thing came and went and your emotional well-being was still present, calm and radiant peace? It is OK to have people/things in your life that bring you joy and peace, but do not become attached to them. For they represent our ego driven attachments, and they will never satisfy us. We will always, search for more and suck the life out of what is. 

What do you want?? Close your eyes and pretend your wish came true. Now how do you feel? Your life may LOOK different, but your feelings, and soul, will remain the same. In the end, it  is peace that we are all searching  for. It is the knowing that we are all one. We do not look toward others/things to fill us up, for we recognize that they exist already within us. 

Next time you feel your ego is getting in the way of your practise on the mat;  take a deep breath, fill up your lungs, and exhale. Let go of the mind chatter. On your next breath, dare to go deeper within and beyond the distraction of ego. Journey on to your place of peace…….

Namaste’

Shelley

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Yoga Off The Mat

Copy of yoga picOK..picture this; you are practicing yoga in a beautiful setting away from all that is stressful. Smell the scent of lavender and  listen to the sounds of nature that surround you. Now imagine how relaxed and peaceful you might feel. You feeling it? 

Now imagine yourself out running around trying to find gifts for loved ones in 20 degree weather. The wind hitting your face, the crowd pushing you about and grey skis above.   Now imagine how tense, tired, and bitter you might feel?  You got it?

My point in the exercise above was to exemplify how easy it is to get to that place of peace in an ideal setting. But when we are functioning in the real world we are often surrounded by situations, environment and individuals that leave us feeling drained. I believe we unconsciously disconnect from our reality as a defense mechanism in dealing with  the stress in our lives. Have you ever been driving along and all of a sudden you realize that you have been in la-la land? You have no recollection of the last  15 miles.  Or you are watching TV and you realize that you have been watching  some awful show of no interest? It is like we turn into an ameba or something.

For many people this is the only escape from reality and stress. Others choose substances to escape. I am not judging for I completely understand and get why we do it.  However I do know there is a better way to get the escape and restoration amidst daily life. The previous examples provide escapes but leave us disconnected from what is most important and true. It is a continual process of escape and life, escape and life., escape and life. The result is that we loose ourselves somewhere. We become disconnected from our self(soul,spirit, divine,light) and thus  become more vulnerable to negative experiences.   One may feel angry, resentful, bitter, jealous, frustrated, isolated, and sad. Nobody likes to feel this way and most people would not want to admit to themselves that they experience such emotions. 

The solution is both easy and difficult. Those of you who exercise  can relate to the good feeling you left with after a workout.  But there is another component that you can add to increase your wellness. It is being still with your body, quieting your mind, connecting to your breath and being aware of your mind in relationship to your body. When you practise this connection it becomes easier over time. It eventually starts to travel with you throughout the day. You start to become more conscious and aware. You are more apt to to be in tune with your emotions and are better able to bring peace and calm to most situations. 

Let the next couple of weeks provide you with an opportunity to practise yoga off of the mat. Honor and be patient with yourself. It is a practice…just like on the mat we practice. Some days we soar in shoulder stand or crow and other days we fall in tree pose. Our practise (on and off the mat) takes patience, discipline, courage, strength,  and the belief  in  oneself.

Namaste’

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The Home Stretch

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Well can you believe that this is our final week of Boot camp! I want to express how proud I am of all of you. You have all made great strides toward becoming more fit and healthy. Now that we are in our fourth week I am sure you have noticed an increase in your personal fitness level. I have had an opportunity to observe each of you and have some suggestions and recommendations that you may find helpful.  Please contact me via e-mail, phone or text so we can discuss further.  I will be available for the next few weeks if you would like to schedule a personal training session. Group exercise is great in many ways but because everybody’s body is different it is important to know what exercises work  best for your body and fitness goals. Now is the time to evaluate your goals and think about a plan going forward. I am here for you so please reach out and let me help. Any questions or concerns? Just let me know…

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10 WAYS TO STICK TO YOUR WORKOUT

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  1. SIGN UP FOR A RACE OR COMPETITION: Having a definite deadline gives more meaning to each and every workout.
  2. MAKE A NEW PLAYLIST:Load a new workout playlist onto your iPod packed full of adrenaline-boosting tunes.
  3. PLAN IN ADVANCE: Plan out your workouts  a week in advance and cross them off as you complete them.
  4. SAVE THE BEST FOR LAST: Start each workout with your least favorite exercise so you can get it over with and move your favorite exercise to the end.
  5. MEASURE UP: Taking your measurements every couple of months gives you a clear end-date.  Tangibles are the best motivators.
  6. SINGLE SET:  When you just don’t feel like working, gear up for one set of your favorite exercise. Chances are you will probably want to finish the workout once you’ve started. 
  7. REWARD YOURSELF: As you achieve your goals, reward yourself with a message, or facial. Just make sure the reward is not junk food!
  8. WRITE IT DOWN: Write a contract with yourself listing all your goals and deadlines, sign it and keep it on the fridge as a daily reminder of the promises you have made with yourself.
  9. SWITCH THINGS UP: Change your training partner every few months. If you get too friendly with your workout partner it becomes easy  to slack off and cancel.
  10. JOIN A MESSAGE BOARD:Message boards are full of inspiration from people who have accomplished their goals and are working toward new ones.

 

 

 

 

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The Sky is the Limit!

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It is not your aptitude, but your attitude, that determines your altitude”

-Zig Ziglar

It was such a pleasure meeting with you all yesterday. I feel fortunate to be a part of your life for the next four weeks. I realize that starting a new fitness regime can be intimidating and overwhelming. I give you all credit for pushing yourself to do something different and out of your comfort zone. Regardless of what your fitness level is today I can assure you that it will be dramatically improved at the end of our journey together. Make the most of this process by setting some goals for yourself. Try to take just one day at a time. First thing after you wake up in the morning do a mental inventory of what it is you want t o accomplish for that day. And then just take that day one hour at a time. Create an emotional and physical environment that is positive and supportive. Be more present and aware so you are able to recognize what or who your saboteurs are. Be the change you desire. If you want more happiness and peace than be a more happy and peaceful person. If you want to be more fit and healthy than become more active and make better food choices. It sounds so simple right??? Then why do we struggle? After accommodating the needs and expectations of others we are often left feeling drained. Leaving us unmotivated to exercise and susceptible to eating poorly. So what do we do to change this perpetual cycle of doom? CHANGE! I know every one hates change…the monster you know is better then the monster you don’t know. But you must change what is not working in your life anymore. Try and stay away from negative people and surround yourself with people who are supportive and positive. You have everything you need within yourself to be successful. Believe you can do it! You are strong and you will reach your final destination feeling accomplished. Remember that it is not only about the destination most importantly it is the journey. Throughout this journey there will be many lessons and opportunities for personal growth. Be open and brave and you will undoubtedly become stronger. When you are having a difficult day and you feel yourself slipping…..dig in your heals and try to forge ahead. The benefit of being part of a group is that we can support and encourage one another. So use this site as a sounding board and whatever it is you are feeling or experiencing express yourself. Let the journey begin…..the sky’s the limit!

Shelley

 

 

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